|Is BDSM legal?
Why yes! Consensual D/s exchanges are perfectly legal in the state of WA and I obey all related local and state laws concerning my craft. That said, please be aware that I
am only selling my time and services as a consultant for educational purposes. Anything beyond that which may occur, is a matter of choice between two consenting adults
having absolutely nothing to do with compensation or exchange of money for services of any kind.
|How much time do you recommend for a first appointment?
I will always recommend 1 1/2 to 3 hours for a first encounter. There is simply no substitute for being able to take our time to learn about each other, deeply exploring the
possibilities of our mutual interests...to let the intensity build and savor each activity slowly and intentionally. If this not possible for you, 60 minute sessions are also available.
Be aware that even with a shorter meeting, we will still be taking some time before play begins to sit down and discuss interests. I will NOT skip this step no matter how much
of a rush you are in.
|Do you ever switch or take on a submissive role?
No. The idea of playing the submissive just doesn't appeal to me in the slightest. I am naturally Dominant and only find pleasure that position.
Do I have to be submissive to see you?
Not at all. I happily offer BDSM sessions without D/s protocol or power exchange. We can absolutely just have fun acting out our fantasies.
|What do I need to do to prepare for an appointment?
Prepare to arrive on time, sober, clean and dressed in neat "vanilla" clothing. It is inappropriate for you to arrive in any sort of fetish attire or cross dressed in any way shape
or form. A shower immediately before hand is required, but I do have one available here if needed. Also, if you are *hoping* for anal play, an enema several hours ahead of
time is paramount. Last but not least, it is beneficial for you to focus your thoughts on what you'd really like out of your session - be realistic in those expectations and be
ready to convey them to me in as much detail as possible. I am unable to read minds and my professional experience does not give me the super human ability to "just know"
how to read you and what you enjoy before I've gotten to know you. Communication is key and it is your responsibility!
How do you handle sanitation?
Diligently! I use only the highest quality medical grade disinfectants primarily Sporiciden, Cavicide, Citrus 3, alcohol, bleach and leather/rubber safe sanitizers. I thoroughly
cleanse ALL items used during a session after each and every use. Click Here for more detailed information.
|Do you provide sex or sex acts?
This is a hard question to answer; the majority of what I do can be considered erotic in nature, but no, we will not be having sex. On that note, my genitals will never be a part
of the session.
That said, the intensity of my sessions generate enough emotion and electricity to rival even the most direct of sexual encounters. I encourage you to take that build up and
use it with a lover in your personal life. If that's not an option - it's certainly fantasy fodder for when you're home alone. I will never perform sexual services for money, to ask
will result in being blacklisted from my dungeon and your session promptly ended.
Do you ever date your submissives or allow them to become personal slaves?
I am offering my time on a professional basis, please do not inquire beyond that.
|Do you train others women to be Dominatrixes?
No. Training to be a Mistress takes a huge amount of time, effort, energy and risk - certainly more than you could ask of an absolute stranger. The best way to develop your
skills is by getting involved in the local BDSM community and attending play parties, workshops and seminars. This will all help you gain experience and become more
established with the local players who may turn out to be your future clients. There are plenty of resources out there, regrettably I do not have time or energy to assist in that
Do you ever rent or share your dungeon?
No, I do not. For privacy, security, legal and insurance reasons, I do not rent/share/lend my dungeon out to others in any capacity.
|Do you enjoy every scene you do?
I always enjoy myself! In fact, I can only recall a handful of sessions in my entire career that I regret.
I am picky, I don't take every appointment that comes my way just because someone figured out how to get in touch with me. I require compatible interests or for you to be
flexible and open to new things. Of course, an enthusiastic attitude doesn't hurt either when calling to inquire about a meeting.
Playing with partners best suited for me, lends high probability to a wonderfully connective and intense encounter for both of us. The only instances where I have not enjoyed
myself to the fullest extent, have always been the direct result of rude behavior, the absolute absence of communication or excessively poor hygiene.
|Are you looking for a personal slave?
No, but I do offer appointments geared towards learning to serve me as well as role play fantasies where you become my personal slave. It will always be done on a
professional basis and my time will always carry a tribute, it will never lead into anything in my personal life and is entirely a fantasy.
|Do I get to tell you what I'd like to do?
Absolutely! While I won't offer you a chance to fully script your session, I will be tailoring a scene to fit your
wants, needs and curiosities. I simply do not offer 'one size fits all' appointments, so open communication is
When booking, we'll fully cover your interests and limits so I can begin preparing your session. Once you
arrive, we will take a few more moments to cover things in a little more depth and make sure nothing left out
during our phone chat for clarity.
|Do you take same day appointments?
I strongly recommend and prefer that my visitors book at least one day in advance. I will always welcome
calls for same day sessions If I have the time available to do so, but this generally only occurs when I have
a cancellations. My time does book out as the day wears on and though I am available until 11pm, I do
stop taking visitors when I've expended my energy regardless of the time. Same day requests are best
made in the early part of the day.
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|Is it painful?
This is usually everyone's first concern when they begin exploring professional BDSM, and let me assure
you; these exchanges are based on fantasy, eroticism and consent.
BDSM is about personal exploration; my scenes are uniquely designed for your enjoyment (and mine) so
nothing happens here that doesn't directly result in pleasure; whether physical, mental or emotional, it's
meant to be enjoyable. I do offer a wide range of interests, some of which are purely sensual and others that
have more varying tones of intensity. It's all up to what each individual suitor craves the most.
What kind of space do you have?
For the last few years, I've had the largest and most elaborately equipped private dungeon in Seattle!
Lavish, discreet and conveniently located just 3 miles from Downtown Seattle's City Center. It is easily
accessible from both I 5 & I 90, with free parking. I am near all major downtown hotels in a very cab friendly
area if you are traveling.
The decor is tasteful, functional and appropriate for pleasure and comfort. My spacious dungeon is well
equipped with a laundry list of bondage furniture, thousands of toys and tools, 3 separate themed rooms, a
fully equipped shower, heating, fireplace and AC.